Transcript of Shannon

Hello Shannon, how are you? I hope you are keeping well. So you had said to me that we are going to look at yourself and Joe. So you and Joe had started talking last October. Um and you had said that sometimes his name is coming out in the Scrabble titles on the readings. So you had said that um he was in he's in the middle of going through a divorce. He has four kids. He's been separated but not officially divorced for two years. Um you said that um she and him do not live together. You all live in LA. Um you haven't really been talking much. last spoke on April 18th. Um, so you had said that um, yeah, he started to pull back in December and then you did have a date Christmas Eve, which was good, but he didn't contact you on New Year's, but he was busy. Um, and then you said he uploaded a post to IG and it looked like he was um, at a dinner, right? But you didn't know who was at the table. So, you kind of messaged him and um he had said that he had decided not to date until his divorce was final and he wanted to focus on himself and his kids and that he really liked you and he thought you were amazing, but that you're in different places and but you did still talk after that and then you said that you had um an IG exchange and you said you missed him and he said he missed you as well. Um but it was kind of open-ended and then he sent or posted another um video. So, this time at a club and there was a bunch of women dancing around him. So you had said that this is not like his normal posts. Um he's 49. Usually it's like golfing and stuff like that. So um you said you were very upset about it. It made you question whether he had lied to you when he ended things and if in fact he was out dating. So you want to know um about his feelings um if there's anyone else. Is he dating? Um will you hear from him? And um has he been Yeah. has he been dating? So what we are going to do is first of all I want to look at his general energy. I want to see what's going on just like around him. What's going on in his life and then we will look at his energy towards you. So we have the three of cups. Yeah. I mean the three of cups is you can see there's like multiple people sort of like out you know drinking you know on that card. So he's definitely socializing right? So he's so you see you're seeing the evidence of that he's uploading that. So yeah, he's um kind of trying to, you know, I guess let loose a little bit or um let his hair down, you know, sort of have a little bit of fun maybe in his life. We have the wheel of fortune coming out. We have the magician coming out. We have the seven of swords coming out and we have the ace of cups coming out and his energy towards you. We have the king of swords. We have the five of wands. We have the four of wands. Just let me That's the 10 of cups on the ground. Hello. I must have had some like setting on the camera because I'm very white looking. I look very white. But anyway, um yeah, 10 of cups and we have the 10 of wands. Okay. So, I do see what he's sort of saying when he's saying that he feels like you guys are maybe in different places because he's looking at you, right? And he views you as someone and it's exactly what he's saying. So, what he's not telling lies when he's saying, you know, that he thinks you're wonderful and he thinks you're amazing. Um but that's where you know the sort of issue is kind of like lying a little bit because um I don't think he's looking to you know jump into something you know serious or I don't think he's even looking for anything like super serious at this time. um what he wants and it's possibly just because you know this still hasn't finished up with his you know ex-wife and you know even when it goes through it looks like he is you know wanting to sort of maybe focus on his like friendships and um manifesting something in his life. Um I do see that there is um people yeah there is someone here that he's got his eye on. There's you know a hidden energy here. Um there's an ace of cups there as well. So um magicians next to it. So it does look like he is trying to manifest um you know a connection a romantic connection here um with someone that he is you know keeping sort of hidden you know he's not um revealing that to you but um he kind of has a hardened approach about this because he does feel that like you are very special but he knows that you are you know looking for a little bit more than what he is wanting you know to really give to you at this time and because he's viewing you as someone who is um like relationship material and someone here that he could see himself being happy in a relationship with I don't think um he feels like you guys are just like right at this time for each other you know I don't think he wants to like you know like you know hurt you either so um he is you know he's feeling a I think an element of like you know um guilt over this situation as well because things were, you know, going well between both of you and it feels kind of like he's suddenly took, you know, a step back and has, you know, put an obstacle in the way. So, let's see. Let's look at a little more Three of cups again, nine of pentacles. Mhm. And the fool. Yeah. So, this I mean this is exactly what I was just saying. This is u wanting to keep um perhaps your relationship lighter, c more casual, easy breezy. um you know with this fool no big you know um idea of like he wants to remain single right so you know he wants to be single he wants to be um independent he wants to go out with his friends he wants to be able to do that you know he wants to do that but he does have attraction for you but um I think he's sort of putting um a bit of a lid on it it's because he doesn't want to like he doesn't want a rel a serious sort of relationship um at this time we have the Ace of Wands crossed with the nine of cups. He's, you know, he's focusing on like relighting his own fire um at this time. And it is coming across as, you know, kind of like selfish to you. It does feel like he's sort of, you know, took these decisions without including you into the conversation and, you know, he's only concerned about what he wants at this time. Like he's going out and he's having fun, he's drinking with his friends and, you know, he's he's not even worrying about like how that might come across to you. So you you know you see this sort of selfish energy um you know with him page of swords, strength, the six of wands, queen of pentacles, the hanged man and the four of pentacles. World, the Chariot, the Devil, the Eight of Pentacles, the Knight of Pentacles, the Empress, the Queen of Cups, the Four of Wands, the Page of Wands, the 10 of Swords, the Knight of Cups, the Eight of Swords, the Hieropofant and the Five of Wands. So, let me get a we clarifying deck. Hello. Okay, so um in the current energy, yes, I'm seeing attraction still there. There absolutely is still attraction there. Um he does view you very very highly and this is nothing personal to you at all. It's just that, you know, with his, you know, situation and being in that relationship for so long and it's still kind of like working itself, you know, to a conclusion and the children and, you know, there's there's a part of him that's kind of looking at this time, you know, for himself as um like relighting his own spark, right? So he is finding himself again and he is um he's not wanting to he doesn't want to commit to anything you know he doesn't want to make any promises that he might not be able to keep he doesn't want to do that uh to you yeah look broken heart is coming out it's in the current energy and the birds difficulty communicating lack of proper communication It feels like, you know, every time he posts something, it's like another hurt, you know. And I'm seeing a cycle closing out here in the past, and I'm seeing a moving forward. We have roses. But I mean, see, there's this like coming back energy. fireworks. There is huge attraction here, the bridge, the rider. I mean, you have, you know, a, you know, a protective energy on your heart as well, but you know, it's kind of like he sort of like I'm seeing, you know, in the fortresses where the we thing comes down and then the writers, what is it? I don't know what it's called. It's like you were vulnerable, you know, with him. This could be his um situation closing up here in the past and him trying to you know move past and move forward from something. Usually it's very significant with the world like a huge ending. And you see there's a queen of pentacles here with the four of pentacles. So I mean this could be his wife. There could be a little bit of um you know emotions and stuff that he's still kind of working through there. But he's not lying to you when he is like, you know, um saying that you are amazing and you know, all of that. He genuinely does see that and it's kind of coming through as like it seems like it's just such like a like a pity that he's at this point in his life where he is right now, you know, and you guys are connecting cuz I do feel that um like I don't feel like this is something that would would last forever, you know. He is sort of finding himself again at this time and he's really just wanting to look on um you know the brighter you know happy he wants to just chill with his friends and you know go out and you know date he does like he I don't see him wanting commitment. So um with the three of cups here he's he's sort of um putting himself out there you know but I did see a hidden energy around that. Yeah, look, there's the fox concealed. It's stealthy. This is a card of self-interest. He is he's putting putting himself first. He's putting himself first. He does not want commitment. And so that's the path that he's sort of like walking at this time. And his intentions here seem to be to focus on, you know, that element of his life. So that's where he wants to put his focus. We have the person of water and we have the kerosene. You see, there could be stuff going on under the surface with him that, you know, he's not really even sharing with anyone. The kerosene is like a sort of like um combustible energy. And with the person of water, it's making me feel like something is kind of like you bubbling under the surface with him. It's, you know, possibly linked to this energy. Hangman, four of pentacles. He could be holding back, waiting because of this divorce, but he's doing, you know, he is kind of like in this fox energy. So, he's not really living, you know, the words that he's saying. There could be um concerns or worries about like division of assets or like money as well. So, as you guys are moving forward here, I do see there's like contact between you both. So, I do see you talking to each other, but he's approaching you not at your level. I wouldn't say that he's approaching you at your, you know, level here. So, what's going on here? We have the pearl. Okay. And we have the cat. Gavin, you see, he can open up, right? He could open up to you and he could tell you that you know he thinks you're wonderful and you know everything that he has been saying and he does mean it right but he's already made up like um his mind he's already made a decision here that the best way for him to possibly navigate you know this situation is through like um a sort of detached apathy energy. So, he's kind of acting like he doesn't notice um your connection in the way that he, you know, he does notice it, but it's because he has um this idea in his mind that he doesn't want commitment. You know, he wants to just be free and single for a while, right? He might have even gave himself a certain time frame where he's like, "Right, I want to be single. I don't want to date for another year. I don't want to date for another two years." Um and when I'm saying date, I mean like, you know, seriously. And for him, you know, with feelings coming in here and um him kind of viewing you through the lens of someone that he could be in a relationship with, um that's kind of like stopped things um in its tracks for him because he doesn't want that. That's not what he's looking for. And um he's sort of, you know, found something special here with you. Um but he doesn't want to hurt you either. So I do see you here. You have very strong feelings for him. You may view him as like um a soulmate or a twin flame. Fireworks. I do think that there is a a feeling here that maybe you've never felt with anybody before, but he's um he's still in like a lighter energy. You know, there's I see contact here and there over your next 6 months, but it doesn't seem to be consistent and he's not giving you he's not opening up the way that you would like. Right? It is there. You know, there's feelings there. There's like a a beautiful pearl just encased under that shell, but he is choosing not to open up um is what I am seeing. The person on fire and the clock, it's about time. It is. It's showing through in his um house here as like a timing issue. He needs time after his um divorce. It's not just enough for it to kind of be finalized and stuff like he needs time and he needs time to sort of like focus on himself and find out who he is and um explore, you know, that sort of energy within himself. That's what he wants, you know, that's what he's um indicating here. It's not because he doesn't have feelings for you because he does. He does have feelings for you and he views you very very very highly. It's because he's got feelings for you that uh this is an issue. If he didn't have feelings, this would not be an issue. We have the mice and we have the shield. So he's pushing you away because of like anxieties and you know worries and maybe not feeling like he's ready. I have the hierofphant with the five of wands ending this. So, there's some sort of maybe contention that he's dealing with with the wife. Um, or there's still issues that are being kind of like worked through or there's some obstacle or something here um with that. I mean, we have the sun and we have the bird cage, the chess. It looks like he is working through something or trying to figure out something. Maybe a lot of his mental energy is going on um you know this sort of divorce and overcoming whatever problems this is because you know he wants his freedom. That bird wants to come out of that cage. Wants to you know fly towards that sun. He wants freedom and um as much as he has got feelings for you and he thinks that you're absolutely wonderful um and he hasn't met anybody else like you right. So he has got all of that feeling for you. he is just not ready and that is what he said to you. He is just not ready at this time. Um I do see that he is um socializing a lot you know so um I don't have one particular woman coming out so I wouldn't say that there is one particular woman that he is like you know pursuing actively chasing it is more the so like wanting to keep his options open not wanting to commit to any one person right so um it is because of the situation that is still ongoing with the wife and um it'll you know kind of continue a little bit after that as well cuz he does need time but um you you know, I think that well, he will f, you know, he's sort of kind of finding himself again a little bit here and um he's it's almost like he's building himself back up again. Like he's starting over again. He's starting, you know, fresh and he he really is wanting to keep his energy, you know, kind of, you know, light at this time. So maybe the divorce was uh very very difficult and he has uh struggled a lot and now that he's kind of starting to see light at the end of you know the tunnel he just kind of wants to um you know kind of nurture that energy for um a bit. So that is what I am seeing. I hope that that has helped. Thank you very very much and I hope you have a lovely day. Thank you. Goodbye.