Transcript of Shannon

Hello Shannon, how are you? I hope you are keeping well. So, thank you for sending me um that email with all the lovely photos. Um all very good-looking people, all of you. Um you are absolutely stunning and you do not look 40 at all. Um I always love getting a face to put uh to the reading. Um you you look like a like both of you look amazing. Like you look like you would make a really lovely couple together. So um what we are going to do is you had said that you had recently sent him a direct message expressing his inconsistent words um and actions and how they hurt you. So you set a boundary saying you weren't looking for a response and he did reply quickly with an apology saying he never meant to hurt you and then you did not respond to him. You want to know about the impact of the message on him and what realizations might be stirring for him regarding the connection since the exchange and does he feel like he owes you any sort of explanation or um understanding of his behavior. Okay. So, you want to know um has he figured anything out really like where he's at? So, we'll have a look at that and then we're going to look at his romantic situation. You said there's a woman called Lyanna. So, that was um the dark herd lady um at the end 38 nurse who may be in the picture. Um so, you want to know about his current focus, intentions, um is he kind of thinking more seriously since um the last reading. How does he view the connection with you compared to other people? So, what we're going to do first of all is we're going to look at this message. So first of all, I want to look at his energy when he received the message and I want to look at his energy now around the message cuz sometimes energies can change. Um I mean you can you can sort of uh ponder over things and then kind of come to different sort of like um energies about it. So what we will do is first of all I want to look at when he first received the message. We have temperance coming out. We have the five of swords, the six of pentacles, the king of cups and the chariot. So when he received this message and we see the six of pentacles here. So, this is some back and forth, right? So, you know, this is some sort of message here and you told him not to reply. He may be viewing that as a five of swords. Um, you kind of cuz it's linking directly to like a reciprocity energy. So, you kind of saying to him that, you know, this is how I feel. Don't bother replying to me or, you know, whatever it was that you said or I don't want to hear from you or, you know, unless you sort of have something to say to me. You know, that makes sense. Of course, like none of this silliness. You know, you know what's acceptable and what's not acceptable. So, um, that's fair enough. like you don't want to get into it like with him. You don't want to stir up all this emotional stuff unless he has something he's going to bring to the table. I get it. So, he gets it too, right? Because I do see that um you know, I don't think he was particularly happy with um being called out, right? Um nobody likes getting called out, but I don't think he was particularly happy with it. But his initial sort of like gut reaction to this was to try and fix it, right? With the temperance card, this can be um like meeting you halfway almost like finding that nice blended like he doesn't he doesn't want you to be up here and him to be down here and he doesn't want um either of you to be he kind of wants you to be at the same sort of like um level and understanding and he wants things to be like, you know, calm and peaceful and he wants both of you to be getting on with each other and for things to be going nice and smoothly. He doesn't want to, you know, deal with any sort of like um issues and problems. And I think that this is to do with like um you know communication especially about like his feelings here with the king of cups coming out because while I completely understand like you know he's you know stop he needs to give you clarity. Absolutely. He needs to give you clarity from his perspective he is feeling like you're kind of um I guess pointing out like his flaws or his um you know or he's not leveling up right. Um, again, I don't think that's a bad thing. Whether he wants to be, um, you know, kind of for his flaws to be pointed out and kind of, you know, to be told, um, that is a different story. But, um, I think it did cause him like a little bit of anxiety here. Uh, fair enough. You know, he deserves it. You can't just go through um, life treating people however um, you want to, you know, you have consequences. We have the chariot here. So initially I'm seeing this almost like it's almost like a surge but it's touching his king of cups as well. So um emotional emotionally here I see like a surge a desire to move forward. So this is the response um you know pretty quickly. He didn't sit on it. Um he felt um the feelings and he acted like on those feelings straight away to try and resolve something is what it looks like. So um that was his initial sort of reaction to this. So, let's see how he's sort of feeling now because he he apologized. You know, we've got temperance there. It looks like he he offered some sort of emotional um attempt to kind of meet you um in the middle, but you have not responded to him. And this five of swords could be reflecting him feeling kind of like defeated a little bit in the situation, like he responded hoping that it could be enough, but she's still unconscious. You can see like a doctor injecting. It looks like something that's going to bring her back to life. Like literally light going through the IV, but she's still not responding. So, um he was probably hoping that, you know, him sending you this we sorry message was going to, you know, be enough for maybe a little bit more here. Um I don't know if he was fully expecting that you wouldn't have responded to him. So, where is he at now? Where is he at now? Seven of cups. He's confused, unsure, uncertain, maybe unsure of whether he should reach out again, unsure of what um he should say to you or why maybe you said or feel some of the things that you do. So, um I mean, I understand it, but doesn't mean that he fully understands it. We have the Ace of Pentacles. Yeah, he's he's unsure here on whether he should um send you a message. We have the two of pentacles. Back and forth, back and forth. We have the queen of pentacles. And we have judgment. Page of wands is at the bottom. So, at this current time, he is on the fence about whether he wants to have like a committed relationship with you cuz I know that was one of your questions. Um I think it was in the yeah previous email cuz I know you'd revised them. Uh but you'd kind of been questioning about whether he was kind of like thinking about like a serious relationship with you and he is thinking about it. It's not that that energy is not there. Absolutely he's thinking about it. He's just not sure. He's 50/50. He's really on the fence. He's going back and forth. On the one hand here he's like you're perfect. You're beautiful. You're gorgeous. You're this beautiful Queen of Pentacles and you do not chase, you know. um he respects that about you. He respects your ability to set these boundaries. He's very attracted to you. But then on the other hand, you know, um committing to you then means uh potentially cutting off options, right? And we do have the seven of cups here. Now, we're looking specifically at how he feels about your message now. Um so, this is more than likely some sort of confusion on whether he should um like say something or what to say now. Like, he's not really sure what he should say. He just knows that he needs to say something cuz I am seeing like a buildup here. Like he knows he needs to message you. So maybe he has messaged you since you've sent me that email on Saturday. But if he hasn't, he's certainly feeling like this pressure to like do something like do something here quickly. So let's see. [Music] He's possibly unsure because of this boundary as well. Like he he doesn't want to like annoy you either. doesn't want to push you like he doesn't want to disrespect you by like crossing your boundary. But I think a part of you kind of wants him to fight for you. You know, you want him to cross that boundary. You want to set this boundary and you want him to cross it. You want him to leap over it um and and do so with gusto, but he's not sure whether um he wants to do that first of all, but also he doesn't know if that would be disrespectful maybe um to some sort of like boundary that you've set as well. So let's have a look at Lyanna. Let's look at Lyanna. King of Pentacles. We have the Hierofphant. Lyanna definitely single. Is Lyanna definitely single? Yeah. I mean that could be uh I guess through like a professional sort of um setting of some sort like as well or he knows her maybe through work or family or something. We have the four of swords. We have the devil and we have the two of cups. Are you sure she's not in a relationship with someone? Are you sure she's single? Because she's she's entangled or right if she's single, right? There's somebody else that she is dealing with and he's aware of that as well. So maybe she's told him that she's kind of dealing with an ex or that she's maybe going through a divorce or something or going through a separation with someone cuz I'm seeing some other uh like relationship here that's restricted their you know um connection. I'm not seeing anything coming through strong with feelings. We have the fool. We have the five of pentacles. He may have made some sort of like um move or attempt on her, but she rejected him. So, she may he may have cuz I'm seeing a man going towards a woman here with a rose. So, maybe he kind of felt like there was some sort of spark or match or something between both of them, but she's embroiled in something else. She's holding on to an ex or something. Six of pentacles and the eight of swords. Five of swords is at the bottom. So, I'm not really seeing it looks like he made some sort of move or there was some sort of interest here, but I'm see I'm seeing a rejection and I think it's because she's it looks like she's involved with like an ex spouse or exartner of some sort. That's what it looks like to me. And so I don't think she's actually ready for like any sort of like dating situation either. But see with regards to him kind of like even approaching her, it looks light. It's the fool energy. It's usually just like the start, the beginning. So um they may have spoke maybe a couple of times or maybe they went on like one date or it it never got off the ground. Here is what I'm seeing. Five of swords is at the bottom. defeat. Let me look at this um restriction. I don't even know if they're like really even talking to each other at this time. It doesn't look like they're talking to each other cuz he's viewing her as trying to work something out with an ex. So, she's blocked him off. So, maybe they were kind of getting on at the start and then all of a sudden she tells him here that, you know, she's trying to work things out with an ex. We are in Mercury Mercury retrograde right now. So maybe she has herself heard from like an ex and now she's kind of not interested. But let's see. It doesn't look like it um got much further than that fool energy which is showing interest. Yes. But I'm seeing a leap in a rejection afterwards. So I think she rejected him here. So has anything shifted towards a more serious connection since the last reading? And let's see. The hermit. He's thinking. He's thinking. He's reflecting. Possibly gone quiet, distant. He very much knows that. Um I think like you are at a point here where like you're just kind of like you've had enough. Like he's aware of that. He is kind of feeling like he needs to bring the goods now or he's potentially going to lose you. Five of Pentacles crossed with the Ace of Pentacles. Ace of Wands, King of Wands, Knight of Pentacles. Hurry up. Why the Knight of Pentacles? That's what I want to know. Why? What's the What's What's What's What's the What's the um hold up here? Emily. I'm going to look at Emily. Knight of Wands. Seven of Pentacles. King of Cups. Tower. Nine of Wands. King of Swords. Temperance. King of Pentacles. Magician. Page of Pentacles. Seven of Wands. Emperor. Two of Pentacles. High Priestess. Death. Hanged Man, Nine of Cups, 10 of Wands, Five of Wands, Eight of Swords, Four of Pentacles, Page of Cups, Queen of Pentacles, Four of Wands, and 10 of Cups. So, at this current time, I see the five of pentacles. And I think that you feel rejected and he feels rejected. I think he feels kind of like maybe some of his, you know, flaws and stuff have been pointed out, which again, I agree with by the way, but I don't want you to think I'm criticized. I agree with it, but um you're kind of feeling rejected cuz you may have been waiting or expecting a little bit more from him that never came, you know, through. And he has been very defensive in the past. And I'm seeing a boundary here being set with communication. So, this is you possibly saying something to him. And he feels right now like you are ready to just throw a grenade at the situation and leave. That's what he feels like. He feels that you're over it. You're over it with him. And right now he's thinking about swooping in and um you taking all this passionate action towards you, but he's still on the fence. Like he's he hasn't made a solid decision. It's just thoughts. It's just fantasies. And when I look at this um Emily, I do see there's an attraction there. So there's some sort of flirtation or something that's been kind of like been developing um for a while over there with um him. So yeah, he he does seem to have an interest in her. I would say that this is something that's been going on a little bit longer term than Lyanna, right? Because Lyanna's kind of showing as it looks like he kind of maybe tested the waters a little bit and she shut him down. Whereas Emily here, it looks like maybe they have been flirting for a while, you know? Um, and I know you said she's a bartender, so if he's in the bar and she's working away, maybe they've been flirting and maybe this has been, you know, a kind of thing where they've been catching eyes with each other for a few weeks or, you know, something like that. But it does look like he is I've got the magician here, you know, so he seems to be trying to like manifest something over here with um her or he's been trying to do that for like a while. What specifically does he want from her? The seven of pentacles, the two of cups. So look, the towers at the bottom. So there is possibly um feelings here that he has got for this bartender, Emily. So let's see how things are continuing because um as we are moving forward here I am seeing things kind of uh being stuck for a while and I'm seeing you you've made a decision here right it wasn't an easy decision look the three of swords has come out it was one that you felt like you needed to make for yourself um for your own happiness and at the same time even though you are aware of that you know that it still hurts and it still feels like there's almost this like suspended in limbo energy where you're maybe waiting to see if he's going actually do anything. And I do see him like holding back. And you you're viewing him here as maybe very stressed and conflicted. Two of Wands. Not sure what, you know, sort of direction to go in. He does have feelings for you, but there's a restriction in terms of him moving things forward with you. And he hasn't been able to like express this to you as well. So, it could be an uncommittal energy. Um, we we did see earlier that um there's like these two paths. One would be keeping options open. Um and then the other would be upgrading your situation. And he's going back and forth about that. I still see that even now in this current energy here. The reason is because um more than likely here he, you know, has sort of um been talking to other people, right? Like he's been talking to other people. He has um this Emily doll is coming through. Um I wouldn't worry too much about Lyanna, but um he's not wanting to commit, it seems, at this current time. Not right now. I'm getting the five of pentacles in your current energy with the ace of pentacles in your challenge. um what you're hoping for from this situation isn't going to come in like in the next couple of months. I don't see it. We have the hermit. He might even go quiet for a while, pull back. You know, he is reflecting on this and he does have feelings for you, but he is showing as very non-committal. He's showing as non-committal. he will, you know, um, continue to like talk and message. And I'm seeing that like it's not that the relationship's going to completely fall away here cuz I see him reaching out to you, Ace of Wands, the Heropant, and the Queen of Wands. But you need to know what he wants, you know. Um, I don't think that you want to have a passionate new beginning just right cuz I think you've been there, done that. You're looking for a traditional path with him. Um, he is bringing that wand energy towards you here in the future. He's very attracted to you, but he seems to be reluctant. the star. Every time he talks to you or reaches out to you or you have these conversations here, I am seeing this renewed hope that he's going to make a different decision, but instead he just like holds back and walks away. Very closed off energy. King of swords, eight of cups, four of pentacles, two of swords, judgement. He doesn't want to make this decision right now. So, he may feel like like he's not ready. Look, eight of swords. He's not ready to make this decision. There is a very um strong connection here between both of you. You're Yeah, it is showing as like a wish fulfillment here for him to be able to express, you know, the desire to have the same things that you want um from him, but um he's just not at the same level as you. Um not at this current time. He is he's like in a page sort of energy. He's not ready to take that next step. And you at the same time have to think about yourself in the situation. So you've made I in my opinion the right um decision here in setting this boundary with him. Let him be in his head. Let him be in his head. Let him go hermit. Let him disappear off into the mountains. Let him think about it. You know he needs to think about this. He can't you know just like have his cake and eat it too. He can't just show up in your life whenever he wants and then kind of like you know have these other women in the background. Like he's not able to do that. I think you've made absolutely the right decision. It may take a bit of time for him to sort of come to that conclusion here as well. I don't really see him leaning that way um super super soon because he has got these commitment issues. So, it's easier for him to sort of do what he's been doing um rather than to step up and you know put on that crown and be that person for you. He is running. You know, there's a bit of a running energy here. But he does have feelings for you. The feelings are here. It's just that um he's not like he's not pouring into you as like the only sort of person here that he's interested in. um he seems to be trying to manifest relationships in his life without having to make any you know sort of like commitments or promises. So that is what I am seeing. I hope that that has helped. Thank you very very much and I hope you have a lovely day. Thank you. Bye-bye.